Understanding Anti-Slut Defense – How Social Conditioning Can Affect a Woman’s Inclination to Have Sex with You

You’re in a bar; this hot chick seems to be giving you more than casual glances and you can’t help but get attracted. The next thing you know, both of you are dancing on the dance floor like Jennifer Grey and (the late) Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing. You think you can end the night with this hot chick on your bed but you’re wrong. Social conditioning will hinder you from releasing your urges tonight.
You may find it weird that this girl is so willing to dance, grope, grind, and flirt with you earlier but wouldn’t go with you to your apartment. Relax, dude. There is nothing wrong with you. It’s called ASD.
She’s playing hard to get?
ASD, or anti-slut defense explains why seemingly game ladies suddenly refuse your “invitations” after a hot encounter that can already be considered as a make out session. If you are wondering why after the music stops playing she walks off to her friends like there was no connection, ASD would explain it.
Girls don’t want you to think that she is easy to get; slutty. She’d like you to think that she is not out for sex because that would be too embarrassing, especially with her friends around. Social conditioning has a lot to do with this. Girls are afraid that if their friends, or other people, see them walk out of a bar with a guy she just met a few minutes ago would be branded as a slut.
These ladies can control their desire to run off with you simply because of this bitch shield. She’d rather forget about the sizzling connection you had on the dance floor than to be looked at as a slut.
Get under her pants
If you want to get her to bed, you have to understand this type of framing. ASD can be a normal reaction in ladies. Try to put yourself in her high-heeled shoes.
You have to understand that this type of social conditioning will have her refusing all your passes. Don’t expect her to walk off the bar with you when her friends are on another table. They’ll think she is cheap. Her bitch shield will immediately turn on.
She will come up with any excuse to not go with you.
“I’m not after sex; it’s a relationship”
Expect to hear this and other lines from her. Try to get her alone in a corner, where her friends will not see the two of you. You will have a better chance of getting her to your house.
And when you do manage to get her in your bed, take responsibility for sex because she will always try to justify it with lines like “it just happened,” or “I was really drunk.” Don’t let her think she caused it; it has to be your idea.  Take the lead.
Know how to deal with ASD and you will have a much bigger shot at getting into a hot chick’s pants. Understand this type of social conditioning and other stuff to increase your odds at getting laid.

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